There’s a growing number of FTM trans inclusive/if not focused porn companies. Of those out there, Trannywood Pictures, and Morty Diamond are probably the best bet… and of course Pink & White Productions, No Fauxxx, Good Dyke Porn, and the solo jack offs on Red Handed Porn are very inclusive to trans and genderqueer performers and diverse looks and sexual appetites.

…hmmmmm… “Grunge porn” makes me think it’ll be filmed in a garage, and that reminds me of all the crazy sexual experiences that happen when we’re growing up and experimenting in the dark and dusty garages of our parent’s home — HOT!!!

About the “us vs them” thing: that’s exactly what I was talking about with him last time, about how I wanted to go into the process with a positive attitude of mutual respect rather than antagonism. It worked!

I’m glad to hear that you feel that you have received non-judgmental care. I feel similarly, but from what I have read, this is not the norm.

I like your closing comment about respect. I know a number of transmen who thought the best way to get through the The Letter phase was to answer a psych’s questions the way that they thought they were intended to respond. This sets up an “us against them” mentality. All we can do is be who we are.